A GIFT FROM THE BOTTOM OF MY HEART

To whom who was taking care of me for 23 years, 6 month.

To whom who sent me to school every morning for the past 7 years.

To whom who was sending me to Melaka central by motorcycle when I want to go back to my campus since him reluctant to have a driving license.

To whom who was asking me frequently “Is your pocket money enough?” when I’m going back home but I always say ‘enough...’.

To whom I get a permission to go everywhere.

To whom who always accompany me wherever I want to go even for shopping.

To whom who beating his children very seldom whatever his children have done but everyone was running away from him when he lost his tempered.

To whom who will be my ‘wali’ when i’m getting married.

He avoids me from riding a motorcycle when I asked him to ride his motorcycle since I’m the oldest daughter.

He is very humble person until he used a bicycle to go everywhere during my childhood.

He is the one who doesn’t have a hand phone.

He is very generous to his guest when visiting our house.

He is my beloved father who was born on 25^th April 1957.

The picture that I only have in my ‘secret’ disk.

Today (yesterday) is his 55^th birthday.

“Selamat hari lahir, ayah...”. The 4 words that so hard for me to speak out.

May Allah give him a good health to continue his life with a blessing from HIM. 

Not forget also to my younger sister, who was born on 25th April 1994.

DONE!

Done with mid-term exam!

3 weeks after mid break, i’m just finishing my mid-term exam. Fuhh...soo hard to come to the end of mid-term examination even it is only mid-term!

Alhamdulillah....

Whatever it is, our efforts are not until here only. Learning is continuing and it is non-stop process, unlimited and infinite.

Now, it is time for tawakkal and dua’.

Have you done “sujud syukur” immediately right after your examination?

It is simple, a symbolic to say “thank you” to Allah as we are able doing and giving our best in examination.

Thanks to Allah, even we are not answering well in examination.

Thanks to Allah even we have done a silly mistake during examination.

Thanks to Allah, even it is impossible for us to pass in examination.

Allah only knows whether we pass or not.

Pass or failed are not the issues.

The important is effort-tawakkal-dua’.

By doing these, insha Allah, we’ll have a good result as a reward for our effort-tawakkal-dua’.

PSIKOLOGI ORANG BERJAYA

"Psikolgi Orang Berjaya" sebuah buku yang tertarik untuk dibaca tetapi saya hanya sempat membeleknya sahaja. saya hanya dapat mengungkapkan tidak sampai 1% daripada kandungannya. Apa yang saya tertarik ialah:

tahap IQ seseorang tiada kaitan langsung dengan kejayaan individu

kajian yang dijalankan ke atas para peguam, jurutera, dan pakar kimia menghasilkan jumpaan yang mendapati bagi tiap-tiap bidang itu, IQ individu-individu itu ialah di antara 100-150. Didapati juga, dalam bidang-bidang itu korelasi antara IQ dengan kejayaan individu ialah sifar.

Jadi, tidak semestinya orang yang berjaya mempunyai IQ yang tinggi. Sebagai contoh, seorang doktor yang dikatakan hebat dari segi IQ, kemungkinan mempunyai IQ yang rendah.

Setiap orang mempuyai potensi untuk berjaya walaupun mereka gagal dalam SPM, walaupun pekerja yang bekerja sebagai pencuci tandas, majlis bandaraya dan sebagainya.

"Innallaha yughaiyyiruma biqaumin hatta yughaiyyiruma bianfusihim"

bila seseorang itu memperoleh keputusan SPM yang cemerlang, terus sahaja memohon untuk melanjutkan pelajaran dlm bidang perubatan, farmasi, pergigian....

Jarang sekali orang ingin memohon untuk bidang usulluddin, syariah, bahasa arab dan sebagainya. Sepatutnya, bidang inilah yang perlu diisi oleh mereka yang mempunyai keputusan SPM yang sangat cemerlang!

setakat ini, baru seorang yang saya jumpai yang mempunyai keputusan SPM yang sangat cemerlang tetapi dia melanjutkan pelajaran dalam bidang bahasa arab.

sememangnya pada awal permohonan orang akan berkata mengapakah tidak memilih bidang yang bagus macam medic ke, dentist ke, farmasi ke....

tetapi sahabat saya ini ingin menceburi dan berjaya dalam bidang bahasa arab dan dia mempunyai alasan tersendiri dan cita-cita dalam bidang ini.

adakah peluang memilih bidang pengajian dalam kerjaya seorang doktor, dentist, pharmacist sudah dikatakan berjaya?

adakah dengan menceburi bidang-bidang lain orang tidak boleh berjaya?

apa-apapun, itu bukan matlamat kita. matlamat kita ialah ingin mencapai redha Allah. Jika seorang pharmacist itu seorang yg sgt bijak tetapi tiada moral, sudah tentu orang akan mencemuhnya.

rabbana atina fiddunya hasanah wa fil akhirati hasanah wa qina azabannar...

lafaz yang sering dibaca di akhir doa.

kebaikan di dunia seiring dengan kebaikan di akhirat.